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Flying phobias – the top 10 myths debunked

by LaurettaCWright
Flying phobias - 10 myths debunked

Until about three years ago, I loved flying. And, as a travel journalist (and a frequent flyer), that was a good thing.

But then I was involved in an unfortunate air incident – something that has affected me since and naturally, I developed a fear of flying. 

And I'm not alone. Millions of people have flying phobias – real fears that disrupt travel plans and stop sufferers, and their families, enjoying the overseas holiday they would like.

So when Christopher Paul Jones, a therapist based in Harley Street who specialises in helping people let go of their fears, offered to debunk some of the myths associated with flying, I just had to publish them.

Myth 1: Flying is unsafe.

Hands up who thinks flying is unsafe.

Even those of us who do not have a phobia will probably raise our hands for this one. But when you’re told that the odds of you actually being involved in an accident when flying is one in eleven million, it might make you question why you are scared in the first place.

Myth 2: If a plane crashes it’s over.

In fact, you have a 95.7% chance of walking away from a plane crash.

This challenges the idea that so many of us have that suggests driving is so much safer because you can walk away from a car crash.

Myth 3: Plane crashes are common – I keep seeing it on the news.

You see them on the news because they are so rare that when they do happen, they make the front page. There are 100,000 flights per day, think about that in comparison to how many actual crashes you hear about.

Myth 4: It does happen to somebody.

Of course it does, things happen, but if you are going to use this junk logic then you’d need to worry about driving 220 times more than you would flying, and 5 times more about sleeping.

Myth 5: The airline companies aren’t affected if we crash.

Actually, the plane that you are flying in alone is worth around £100,000,000 and the compensation that an airline company would need to pay out would also cost millions.

Myth 6: Turbulence is dangerous.

Fact: Turbulence does not increase the odds of an aircraft accident.

For most of us, turbulence is simply annoying but for some it can bring on a real fear that the plane could be brought down. Actually, the worst you can expect from a bout of turbulence is spilling your in-flight refreshments.

Myth 7: Lightning can bring down a plane.

Fact: No modern plane has been brought down by lightening and modern planes are designed to withstand a lightning strike. 

Myth 8: If an engine fails the plane will fall from the sky.

Fact: A plane is simply a big glider and planes can be flown and landed without an engine. And your pilot will have gone through rigorous training to land this big glider.  

Myth 9: The wing of the plane might fall off.

Highly unlikely, actually. Wings are stress tested before a plane is even allowed to ever take flight.

Boeing conducted a ‘wing flex test’ that had the wings of a Boeing 787 flexed upwards by approximately 25 feet. This proved that the wings of a plane can handle even the most extreme forces.

Myth 10: Worrying keeps me in control and prepares me for the ‘what if’. 

You cannot control everything and trying to do so creates stress. One in every 2.5 people has a heart attack because of stress and worry. You are actually more likely to die of a heart attack than from flying.

Once you look at a flying phobia in a rational way and realise that, actually, most of what we believe can be attributed to myth, it might be time to think about working on your phobia with a skilled therapist. Therapy can set you free from your fear of flying and change can happen quickly.

Stop being the one who misses out on overseas travel. Life is short, and there is a wonderful world out there waiting.

And for me personally? I've often considered therapy. In fact, one of the people involved in the same plane incident as me had therapy – and he says it has worked well overall for him.

Do you have any phobias? What are you fearful of?

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Emma Walton 21st October 2018 - 3:02 pm

I love taking off and landing. The noise when the engine picks up right before take off is brilliant!

LaurettaCWright 21st October 2018 - 5:57 pm

You’re much braver than me Emma – I used to embrace it and now i just try to ignore it’s happening!

Kim Styles 14th July 2018 - 3:07 pm

I do fly but I have heard that is taking off and landing where the plane is the most likely to crash and for those moments of the flight I am a total mess

Hayley Atkins 15th April 2018 - 5:15 pm

I really don’t enjoy the take off and landing,although the actual flying part is ok. Reading this article made me realise how irrational my fears are.

LaurettaCWright 15th April 2018 - 8:17 pm

That’s good to hear Hayley – hopefully you’ll feel better next time you have to fly!

Hayley Atkins 15th April 2018 - 5:12 pm

I really dont like the take off and landing (the actual flying part is ok).I found this article very interesting and has made me realise how irrational my fears were.

Lisa Hooper 16th February 2018 - 3:51 am

I had a bad experience and haven’t flown in years. I’m missing out on so much of life and family events. Thanks for sharing.

LaurettaCWright 16th February 2018 - 1:00 pm

Sounds like you could do with some extra help Lisa!

Kira 12th February 2018 - 10:59 am

I think we have all believed some of these over time . I use to be a nervous wreck! Your not the only one xx

Katy Stevens 10th February 2018 - 8:06 am

Wow – myth 2 was really surprising. I need to book us a holiday soon so we can fly I think!

LaurettaCWright 10th February 2018 - 8:54 am

Ha ha! Best of luck Katy!

Anosa Malanga 9th February 2018 - 8:47 am

Couldn’t agree more on this post. Actually, I somehow laugh to those myths while reading as I used to believe that as well when I am younger. Hahaha! Now that I am also travelling often, I have forgot about this myths already.

LaurettaCWright 11th February 2018 - 1:15 pm

I think most of us have thought they might be true at some stage so you’re not the only one.

Clare 8th February 2018 - 3:03 pm

I wouldn’t say I was scared of flying, but if I allow myself to actually think about it then it does bother me.

LaurettaCWright 8th February 2018 - 3:07 pm

I think that’s half the battle isn’t it …not thinking about it!

Kara 8th February 2018 - 2:59 pm

I have to admit that I adore flying and always have – I never understand why people are scared of it

LaurettaCWright 8th February 2018 - 3:15 pm

That’s great Kara – long may that continue for you…!

Newcastle Family Life 8th February 2018 - 2:30 pm

I used to love flying but since becoming a parent I worry a lot about it. This was really useful to read as we are flying soon and I have been feeling a tad anxious about it xx

LaurettaCWright 8th February 2018 - 3:16 pm

Good to hear! It’ll be nice to get away from this miserable weather!….enjoy!

Hazel Newhouse 8th February 2018 - 1:24 pm

Luckily I don’t have flight phobia, but then again, the last flight I took was 10 years ago! My husband often flies for work, and really doesn’t like it. He is OK once above the clouds, but take off and landing really fills him with dread. Great informative post x

Debbie Nicholas 8th February 2018 - 12:45 pm

Thankfully I love flying I just don’t get much chance to do it!

LaurettaCWright 8th February 2018 - 3:17 pm

The good news is airlines are reduced their airfares to compete with one another all the time – and apparently, long-haul is thenew short-haul!

fashionandstylepolice 8th February 2018 - 11:26 am

Love this list. I have heard a few of these myths before.

Sonia Cave 7th February 2018 - 6:04 pm

This is a great list and puts it all into perspective. There are definitely other hazards out there that happen more and you have more chance of happening

LaurettaCWright 8th February 2018 - 3:18 pm

Yes I’ve heard people are more likely to be involved in a car accident than a plane incident.. I was just one of the unlucky few – or lucky you could say as I’m still here!

Starlight and Stories 7th February 2018 - 4:39 pm

A great and very rational List. I’ll show it to my mum and see if it helps her. She is terrified of flying x

LaurettaCWright 8th February 2018 - 3:19 pm

She might need more than a few words to get over her fear though….wishing her lots of luck!


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